In this episode, the guest is none other than Tim Ferriss (@tferriss)—a five-time #1 New York Times bestselling author, technology investor, and host of the acclaimed podcast, The Tim Ferriss Show
  • Tim’s exceptional learning and teaching skills have set him apart, and he shares his process for achieving success and providing valuable insights. The episode also delves into Tim’s philanthropic efforts, particularly his contributions to psychedelic research for mental health treatment, the process of writing and marketing a book, meditation, parenthood, and much more
Host- Andrew Huberman (@hubermanlab)
Tim explains that writing “The 4-Hour Body” allowed him to diversify his identity outside the business category
  • Tim enjoys challenging prevalent beliefs and dogmatic assumptions in different fields
He mentions the emergence of technologies like wearables and continuous glucose monitors (CGMs) in the late 2000s
  • Tim attended the early stages of Quantified Self-movement and learned about professional race car drivers using CGMs
  • He saw potential applications for CGMs in non-diabetic individuals and explored the use of early versions of Dexcom CGMs
Tim aimed to investigate genuinely new and old approaches to health and performance, both through scientific investigation and personal experimentation
  • He emphasizes the importance of individual study design and progress in determining causality
Tim also mentions exploring older and orphaned methods, citing examples of doping practices sourced from older literature
  • These methods might not be detected by traditional anti-doping tests
Tim’s approach to gathering information and identifying trends:
  • He conducts interviews with experts in various fields and asks them specific questions
  • Tim seeks to understand what technical nerds, rich people, and individuals cobbling together awkward solutions are doing
  • He explores the potential for future innovations based on current practices and needs
  • Tim mentions examples such as using virtual assistants and piecing together technological solutions
  • He pushes into speculative discussions with experts, delving into science fiction-like scenarios
  • Tim inquires about the close friends or thinkers that experts pay attention to for unorthodox ideas
  • He believes that studying extreme cases, such as racehorses, individuals with chronic illnesses, bodybuilders, billionaires, and high-level athletes, can provide insights into emerging trends
  • Tim assumes that practitioners and coaches are often ahead of scientific papers and that their practices eventually make their way into peer-reviewed literature with a lag time
    • He acknowledges that science can be slow to catch up with real-world practices
The process of writing “The 4-Hour Body” was different from his later books because he had extensive records of his own athletic performance and experiments
Tim Ferriss has hypergraphia, capturing almost everything in writing and keeping detailed notes on supplement use and other aspects
He would replicate past workouts and diets by referring to his records and photos from specific periods when he wanted to achieve a certain look or performance
  • Tim Ferriss believes replication is essential and would often try to replicate his findings with other people
The structure of “The 4-Hour Body” was designed as a Choose Your Own Adventure book, allowing readers to select chapters based on their interests
He gathered research using tools like Evernote’s Web Clipper and marked important points with three asterisks for future reference
Tim Ferriss used the program Scrivener, originally designed for screenwriting, to gather and organize his research, documents, and drafts
He sought serendipitous encounters and conversations with people in various disciplines in the Bay Area, which he considered a fertile ground for ideas and connections
Tim followed a structured routine, including research, conversations, emails, training, and eating during the day
  • He trained mostly at a climbing gym called Mission Cliffs in San Francisco, which had barbells and kettlebells
    • Tim was training for certification in kettlebell training and had developed a friendship with Kelly Starrett from San Francisco CrossFit
  • After training, he would focus on synthesis and start writing from around 9 or 10 PM until 4 or 5 AM, following his preferred schedule for writing
He believes many successful writers, including himself, often do their best writing during late-night or early-morning hours when the rest of the world is inactive
  • Tim Ferriss’s schedule included sleep from around 4 AM to 11 or 12 PM, aligning with his natural nocturnal tendencies
He made compromises later in his social life to accommodate a more typical schedule when he had a significant other
He mentions Lex Friedman, who followed a similar nocturnal schedule for his creative work
Lack of distractions and space to focus on writing may be one reason why many creators prefer working during late-night hours
Tim Ferriss points out that writers often find ways to avoid writing and engage in other tasks, such as cleaning shoes, to procrastinate
He discusses onset insomnia and how shifting his bedtime later might address some of the issues he experiences with sleep patterns
Tim Ferriss’ approach to peeking around corners:
  • Looks for examples of outliers
  • Finds two or three cases that are exceptions, interesting, and worth investigating
  • Considers plural anecdotes as a starting point for interesting discoveries
  • Acknowledges that anecdotes do not equal data, but case studies and histories can raise exciting questions
Most of what we know about human memory is based on research conducted on one patient, HM, who had his hippocampi removed for epilepsy
Not all areas of examination will receive funding for randomized controlled trials (RCTs), especially if directive data is sought
When it comes to decisions about diet, health, and exercise, consensus may be difficult to achieve, and arguing on the internet about nutrition is a wasted effort
Focus on what works for yourself, your family, or your team rather than trying to convince others of your viewpoint
Arguing on the internet is unlikely to change anyone’s opinion and may only lead to frustration
  • Engaging in live and let-live behavior can provide a competitive advantage
Recognize the engineered nature of social media apps and their ability to undermine self-discipline, and consider limiting their use
Look for changes that are easy to make, have high adherence, and limited downsides to achieving disproportionate change
Consider risk mitigation by keeping cell phones in airplane mode when stored in pockets due to potential effects on gonadal function and reproductive health
Anecdata suggests that following the recommendation of keeping the phone off in pockets may have positive effects on sperm analysis
  • Quality meta-analyses support the notion that the proximity of smartphones when turned on can have negative effects on sperm
Tim Ferriss on the importance of scientific literacy:
  • Emphasizes the need to avoid self-deception when conducting self-experiments or experiments in small groups
  • Recommends reading books like “Bad Science” and “How to Lie with Statistics” to enhance scientific literacy
  • Understanding the strengths and weaknesses of studies can be achieved through resources like Dr. Peter Attia’s blog series on studying the studies
Limitations of randomized controlled trials (RCTs):
  • Huberman acknowledges that certain topics may never be explored in RCTs
  • Discusses the example of BPC157, a gastric peptide with anecdotal evidence of promoting faster injury healing
  • Financial incentives and career considerations often influence the decision to conduct controlled trials, limiting the availability of research on certain interventions
Considerations for personal interventions:
  • Tim encourages individuals to explore interventions that have a plausible upside and limited downside
  • Anecdata (anecdotal data) can provide valuable insights when presented cautiously
  • Shares a personal example of testing trans-resveratrol for increasing endurance but experiencing joint pain as a commonly reported side effect
Huberman shares his experience with a supplement called bulbine natalensis, which initially spiked testosterone but later caused negative side effects like acne, aggression, and testicular pain
They discuss the skepticism surrounding certain supplements and express interest in doing a podcast on supplement fails
Tim Ferriss suggests discussing experimental fails, including topics like PRP (platelet-rich plasma) injections and the risks associated with infections
Tim shares his personal experience of getting an injection in the wrong location, resulting in a potentially severe situation that required a visit to the ER
They emphasize the need for caution when using injections and highlight the importance of considering the implications for the liver
Huberman asks Tim about his current practices of using accelerometers, continuous glucose monitors, deliberate cold exposure, etc.
Tim mentions using cold exposure consistently, particularly through contrast therapy involving hot and cold water, for injury recovery and mood regulation
  • He expresses interest in whole-body hyperthermia (excluding the head) for depression
They discuss the potential benefits of heat and hyperthermia in moving towards antidepressant states by increasing dopamine, epinephrine, and norepinephrine levels
Tim acknowledges that whole-body hyperthermia is in the early stages of research and has practical implications compared to cold showers or baths
Tim still follows the slow carb diet but no longer as his default 24/7 approach, using it for corrective intervention when needed to maintain his desired physique
The Slow Carb Diet is a simple and easy-to-adhere diet designed for people who have struggled with other diets
  • Rule number one is to avoid drinking calories, including juices and sweetened beverages
  • Rule number two is to avoid eating anything white, which includes starches and similar foods
Eating 30 grams of protein within 30 minutes of waking up is recommended
The diet consists of three main categories: vegetables, beans and lentils, and a source of protein
It’s encouraged to create a set of meals to follow without deviating for a period of one or two weeks
Cheat day is allowed once a week, where anything goes, and indulging in favorite foods is permitted
Fruit and fructose should be avoided during the week, but they are allowed on cheat day
It is suggested to have a release valve like cheat day to prevent it from occurring as a failure point
Other recommendations include avoiding “Domino Foods” which can lead to portion control issues
Calorie counting is not necessary as the diet tends to be self-limiting due to high fiber and protein intake
Fasting or reducing caloric consumption significantly is acceptable and can be personalized based on individual preferences
Over time, cheat days may become more regulated and controlled
The Slow Carb Diet has shown great success for weight loss, muscle gain, increased energy, and stable blood sugar levels
Long-term adherence and follow-up studies are still needed to assess the diet’s effectiveness over time
The diet has a high adherence rate and can be followed on a reasonable budget
Huberman talks about the surprising finding of consuming 30 grams of protein within 30 minutes of waking and its positive impact on body composition and muscle growth
  • He acknowledges that the exact mechanism behind the benefits of early protein intake is unclear but emphasizes that it works well for him
Tim agrees that the low-carb diet can be helpful for many people and explains that the thermic effect of food, appetite suppression, and reduced daily calorie intake contribute to its effectiveness
Tim cautions that strict adherence is necessary to avoid potential problems, similar to the ketogenic diet, which can cause issues if not followed correctly
Tim expresses interest in extended fasting (3 to 7 days) and ketosis for metabolic psychiatry, which can have a significant impact on mental health
He praises Chris Palmer’s work in exploring the relationship between diet and mental health, highlighting the potential for specific diet protocols to treat mental health issues
Tim anticipates that in the next few years, the understanding of the connection between diet and mental health will become more widely recognized
  • He emphasizes the interplay of mind and body, debunking the Cartesian Duality concept, and shares his long-standing interest in optimizing mental health and cognitive performance through diet
Huberman refers to an essay by Paul Graham that talks about the tacit messages of certain cities, though it may be outdated
  • The tacit messages of certain cities are mentioned, such as Boston implying “you’re not smart enough,” New York implying “you’re not powerful enough,” and Los Angeles implying that people aren’t paying enough attention to what you’re doing
Tim recommends considering the stage of one’s career and life when deciding where to live
  • He suggests that during a growth phase, living in areas of high density, like New York, LA, San Francisco, Chicago, Ottawa, or Pittsburgh, can be beneficial
He talks about his experience starting in the South Bay and volunteering at events to build his network
Tim suggests focusing on in-person interactions and attending conferences to meet people and create meaningful connections
  • He shares his strategy of approaching panel moderators at conferences and building deeper relationships through longer conversations
Developing a few meaningful connections > collecting numerous business cards
Tim emphasizes the disadvantage of prioritizing bragging about connections (starf*ckers) over developing skills and learning from others
Tim discusses the challenges of trying to befriend highly influential individuals
  • He suggests that focusing on skills development and learning can lead to meaningful connections with individuals who are slightly below the top tier but still highly skilled
  • Want to get boxing lessons from Floyd Mayweather Jr.? Not going to happen
    • Tim gives the example of seeking personalized lessons in boxing, where one can potentially learn from silver or bronze medalists who may be more accessible than the top-ranked athletes
Seeking fame by associating with famous people
  • Intrinsic motivation and personal growth should be prioritized
  • He discusses the significance of intrinsic motivation and asks the question, “If I could never talk about this, would I still do it?” as a way to evaluate true intentions
He discusses the power of asking good questions and how he collects and revisits questions from various sources
  • Tim acknowledges the transformative effect of asking deep, introspective questions that engage the subconscious mind
  • He highlights the importance of questioning one’s own beliefs and refining questions while journaling
Tim shares the question, “What might this look like if it were easy?” as a helpful tool for reframing and simplifying challenges
  • He emphasizes the benefits of making life easier and more elegant by reducing extraneous elements and connections
  • Tim references Rick Rubin and his approach to simplicity and reduction in various aspects of life
Tim shares his experience with psychedelics, starting with recreational use as a kid, which was correlated with negative times in his life
Tim revisited psychedelics, specifically MDMA, from a therapeutic standpoint and found tremendous benefits with a medical doctor
He acknowledges that these drugs are currently illegal but mentions that controlled studies by Robin Carhart-Harris, Nolan Williams, and others have shown their potential in relieving depression and trauma
He emphasizes that he values his health and acknowledges his past adventurousness with biohacking and self-experimentation but recognizes the importance of self-preservation
Tim talks about the tremendous efforts he has put into promoting and funding pioneering research in psychedelics, to move them from illegal to legal in therapeutic settings
He takes Huberman back to his first thoughtful exploration of psychedelics during his undergraduate years at Princeton
  • Tim initially studied neuroscience and psychology and had a strong interest in understanding mechanisms and therapeutics related to neurodegenerative diseases
  • He mentions the breakthrough discoveries at Princeton during that time, including the examination of neuronal regenesis in the hippocampus
  • Tim describes his first recreational experience with mushrooms, expressing horror at the lack of control and supervision
  • He mentions consuming a significant amount of mushrooms, possibly exceeding five grams, which he now discourages
Tim explains how his subjective experience of time, self, and reality during that first experience sparked his curiosity and led him to study these compounds
  • He mentions writing a paper in 1998 or 1999 about potential similarities between REM sleep and LSD, focusing on neural activity patterns
  • Tim recalls the work of Barry Jacobs, a professor who studied serotonergic systems and did animal research involving cats
He expresses his discomfort with the animal research requirements and explains why he eventually switched focus to language acquisition and East Asian studies
Tim highlights his experience with major depressive disorder and depressive episodes from a young age, averaging three to four episodes per year
  • He discovered an “Afterglow effect” after higher-dose psychedelic experiences, which had a durable and long-lasting antidepressant or mood-elevating effect for three to six months
Tim became intrigued by the unanswered questions regarding the mechanisms and structural changes related to this Afterglow effect
  • He then shares a scary experience during a psychedelic trip in rural New York that involved being alone in the middle of the road with oncoming headlights
  • This experience led Tim to completely stop using psychedelics, although he remained interested in them
Tim didn’t revisit psychedelics until around 2012-2013 when he was still struggling with a major depressive disorder
He saw his girlfriend at the time completely transformed by supervised facilitated use of Ayahuasca, which was not as common in conversation back then
Tim started researching psychedelics systematically, looking at published work from the last 10 years and considering proper supervision and safeguards
He also explored other interventions like Transcendental Meditation (TM) and attended a two or three-day training to alleviate acute stress
Tim examined how to approach psychedelics in a logical sequence with safety assurances before having his own experiences
  • He observed significant improvements in his depressive episodes, reducing the frequency to one every two years instead of three to four times per year on average
Tim took copious notes over 10+ years, considering writing a book about his experiments and learnings
He connected with scientists like Roland Griffiths at Johns Hopkins and supported their work on MDMA-assisted psychotherapy for complex PTSD
Tim believed these tools were outside the normal paradigm of psychiatry and pharmacology, and he wanted to fund and promote their exploration
He started funding science, including early-stage science at Adam Gazzali’s Lab at UCSF, focusing on software for age-related cognitive impairment
Tim Ferriss crowdfunded a pilot study at Johns Hopkins, examining psilocybin for treatment-resistant depression, and found little negative blowback
  • He aimed to remove the stigma, open up federal funding, and focus on access, cost reduction, and insurance reimbursement for mental health therapeutics
Tim chose to focus on mental health therapeutics, including psychedelics, because it was uncrowded, had high leverage, and challenged existing assumptions
  • He has been methodically executing his game plan for the past five years, funding and promoting mental health research and access
Tim has rallied a collection of powerful people to contribute to the Sisley Foundation
  • The Sisley Foundation focuses on prototypes and small bets to pilot new ideas
The foundation has funded various projects, including a pilot study on treatment-resistant depression at Johns Hopkins and a journalism fellowship at UC Berkeley
  • The fellowship at UC Berkeley provides funding for up-and-coming journalists to focus on psychedelics as their beat
The foundation aims to support investigative journalism that examines different facets of the psychedelic ecosystem, such as therapeutic potential and regulatory issues
The outcomes of the fellowships have been impactful, with articles published in Rolling Stone and National Geographic
The foundation also funded the development of curricula at Yale, Johns Hopkins, and NYU to train psychiatry MD students in administering psychedelic therapies
Tim believes in breaking down complex problems into constituent pieces and executing plans systematically
Tim mentions the potential synergistic effect of combining transcranial magnetic stimulation (TMS) with psychedelics to enhance neuroplasticity
  • TMS is also interesting as monotherapy for depression, anxiety, and substance use disorders
Low-intensity ultrasound is another technique with potential applications in addiction and other areas
Tim emphasizes the need for careful exploration and testing of high-leverage, low-downside bets in the psychedelic field
  • He acknowledges that psychedelics may not be suitable for all conditions and can be contraindicated for certain individuals with conditions like schizophrenia and borderline personality disorder
In the late 60s and early 70s, meditation and psychedelics were associated and explored together, with places like Esselen emerging
  • However, meditation and psychedelics later separated as individual practices
In the mid-2000s, neuroimaging became more accessible, leading to an increase in studies on meditation and its benefits
  • Nowadays, meditation is widely accepted as beneficial, with studies supporting its positive effects on anxiety reduction, self-awareness, sleep improvement, and even insights into consciousness
Tim does 10 to 20 minutes of meditation in the morning 
  • He may use a concentration practice with a mantra or try a guided meditation
  • He specifically mentions the “Waking Up” app by Sam Harris
    • Tim has gone through the introductory course multiple times as a meditation reboot
    • Grab the Waking Up app and try it out
Once a certain level of awareness and mindfulness is developed, other activities can provide similar benefits to meditation
He finds spending time in silence in nature without distractions to be beneficial
  • Tim has engaged in extended fasts in nature, lasting around seven days with only water, to experience the benefits
Tim’s favorite spots for connecting with nature include Colorado, Utah, and New Mexico, particularly in the mountains and around rivers and lakes
  • He believes that spending time in awe-inspiring natural environments is therapeutic and essential for transcendent experiences
A yearly priority for Tim Ferriss is blocking out weeks to spend in nature, away from distractions and daily routines
  • Last year, he went to Colorado and took daily hikes, staying in a hotel and enjoying the natural surroundings
Tim engages in one-week or longer periods off the grid to disconnect from daily routines and experience nature
These nature retreats help him put better systems in place and create a carryover effect that benefits the re-entry phase
To prepare for an extended trip, Tim puts policies and rules in place in advance to prevent a chaotic return
  • He schedules podcast recordings on Mondays and Fridays to batch similar activities and have episodes pre-scheduled
After a nature retreat, Tim allows for a 2-3 day integration period to slowly ease back into his previous routine
  • He avoids jumping straight into a full day of calls or meetings upon returning as it can be too much of a shock to the system
Tim believes that taking breaks and creating space for reflection and recovery is essential for overall well-being
By deliberately de-optimizing certain areas of his life, such as stopping compulsive productivity, he increases his sense of well-being
During nature retreats, Tim sometimes writes, but he also consciously integrates activities like reading poetry to counterbalance optimization
He emphasizes the discomfort of simply sitting with oneself and not being constantly productive, which can be challenging but valuable
Tim finds it helpful to explore periods of peace and see if his generative drive is a healthy and proactive pursuit or an escape from something
Nature retreats don’t have to be extreme like water fasting; they can involve spending time in nature, exercising, and allowing problems to fade away
Tim encourages getting outside and moving as much as possible, even if it’s just for a few hours, to experience the positive effects of nature
He mentions Olympic National Forest as a spectacular destination that he wants to return to for longer retreats
Mentors can be people we know well or individuals we assign as mentors without their awareness
Tim has mentors who are also his friends, and the relationship is mutually beneficial
Choosing mentors involves spending time with people who embody qualities or areas of life that one wants to emulate
Tim believes that the five or six people you spend the most time with influence who you become, so he chooses his friendships carefully
Mentors can be older or younger individuals who offer different perspectives and experiences
Tim mentions Kevin Kelly as a mentor who provides valuable life experience
Mentoring relationships can be one-directional, but Tim prefers a more reciprocal dynamic
Tim believes that almost anyone can teach you something if you take the time to learn from them, even Uber drivers or restaurant workers
Developing self-awareness is crucial before seeking mentors, as it helps identify areas for personal growth
Tim often seeks advice from his friend Matt Mullenweg, the founder of Automattic, to learn from his cool and calm temperament
  • He uses the question, “What would Matt do?” in moments when he feels dysregulated or carried away by emotions
Tim emphasizes the importance of just-in-time information over just-in-case information, focusing on learning what is immediately relevant rather than speculative knowledge
Rather than assembling a personal board of directors, Tim prefers reaching out to a few people for answers when he has specific questions
  • Tim hires coaches and therapists as mentors, recognizing the value they provide even if they are paid for their services
Tim practices mind allocation on a yearly and weekly basis
Every year, Tim Ferriss does a past year review where he goes through each week in his calendar and notes down the people, places, activities, and commitments that produced peak positive and negative experiences
This review helps create a “do more of” and “do less of” list for the upcoming year
Tim then looks forward to the next year and schedules the identified important activities and commitments
  • Tim has already blocked out his calendar until November of the current year
Weekly mind allocation is crucial to avoid excessive cognitive switching
Mondays are often dedicated to administrative tasks and miscellaneous activities
Physical activity is prioritized, and if in a location like Colorado, it is scheduled for the first portion of the day to ensure movement
Tim emphasizes the importance of not starting the day with social media as it can be time-consuming and distracting
  • He deleted social media apps from his phone to avoid wasting time on them
Tim acknowledges the brain damage caused by using Instagram and doesn’t recommend it to most people
  • He believes it’s challenging to use self-control to limit Instagram use to a few minutes
The importance of scheduling important activities to prevent them from being crowded out by less important but urgent tasks is highlighted
Mind allocation is influenced by the cost of cognitive switching
He believes that cultivating the ability to be still and calm is essential and avoids having social media on his phone
  • Tim Ferriss finds Twitter less useful and practical due to recent changes and prefers not to have it on his phone
Resist the urge to consume social media when waiting or in idle moments
Tim Ferriss discusses his creative project called “Cøckpunch,” which is an experiment in fiction writing and illustration
The project aims to make Tim less precious about protecting his personal brand and is an investment in his long-term mental health and career flexibility
Tim wanted to explore different approaches to fundraising, including crowdfunding and art auctions, using the emerging technologies of web3 and NFTs
The project raised almost two million dollars, which was donated to the Science Foundation in the form of grants
Tim got to work with artists, and programmers, and reconnect with old friends in the process
“Cøckpunch” is a long fiction project set in a realm called Varlata, with a mind-bending time component and a focus on combat competitions known as the Great Games
  • The story revolves around anthropomorphized roosters who punch each other with gauntlets and compete in the Great Games
Tim’s enthusiasm for the project is evident, and he finds joy, peace, contentment, and delight in working on it
The project has allowed Tim to explore new creative muscles and has rekindled his interest in comic books, gaming, and tabletop gaming
Tim permits himself to explore new ideas and challenges and believes that even if the project fails externally, the relationships and skills gained will be valuable
The success of “Cøckpunch” has given Tim more energy and opened up new possibilities for him
The podcast “The Legend of Cøckpunch” has gained popularity and reached number one in fiction worldwide on Apple Podcasts
The story takes place in the realm of Varlata and involves characters from eight primary houses who compete in the Great Games
The project started as a farce but has become more elaborate and is an ongoing fiction project with audience input
Tim emphasizes the importance of giving yourself permission to explore and challenge what seems impossible
Tim shares his personal experiences with suicide and depression:
He discusses his near-suicide experience in college and how he had meticulously planned his own death
  • Tim had a specific date, method, and location in mind for his suicide
  • He emphasizes that suicidal individuals often feel broken and believe that their life can never improve
Despite feeling isolated and keeping his suicidal thoughts a secret, Tim decided to write a long post about his experience
  • The act of writing about his near-suicide was terrifying but also cathartic
  • Tim’s primary motivation was the encounter with a young man at an event whose brother had taken his own life
  • The young man believed that Tim’s openness about mental health could help others
  • Inspired by the encounter, Tim wrote the post with the hope of preventing others from going through what he almost did
  • He deliberately optimized the post’s title and URL to attract those searching for practical advice on suicide, leading them to find intervention resources instead
  • Tim stresses the importance of seeking help from suicide hotlines when feeling suicidal
Tim recounts another personal trauma of being sexually abused as a child
  • He shares that he had kept this dark secret locked away for most of his life
  • Tim’s original plan was to write a book about the abuse after his parents passed away, to spare them from feeling responsible
  • However, during a conversation with his girlfriend, she pointed out the long time it would take to publish the book and the potential loss of lives in the meantime
  • This realization led Tim to record a podcast discussing his experience instead
Tim expresses his initial hesitation to publish the podcast due to fear of hurtful online commentary
  • He was concerned about opening himself up to potentially harmful conversations.
  • To protect his vulnerability, Tim decided not to look at social media or read any feedback for several weeks after releasing the podcast.
Tim considers the podcast with his friend Debbie Millman, where they both shared their stories of sexual abuse, to be his most impactful work
  • The podcast aimed to provide hope and support to those who carry similar secrets
After publishing the podcast, many of Tim’s close male friends reached out to share their own experiences of sexual abuse
  • Tim was surprised by the high percentage of his high-achieving male friends who had experienced such abuse
  • This highlighted the need to address and heal from trauma, even for individuals who channel their pain into achievement
Tim emphasizes the importance of self-reflection and spending time in empty spaces to understand one’s motivations and determine if they are pursuing something positive or avoiding personal demons
Tim’s work in revealing personal trauma has a substantial positive impact on people:
  • Comments and feedback from readers and listeners of his podcasts and blogs indicate the significant impact of his storytelling
  • People with similar or different stories of trauma have found solace and inspiration in Tim’s work
  • Tim’s willingness to be the first to share his experiences and sit alone in those vulnerable moments is commendable
Tim’s exploration of various fields, including psychedelics and physical augmentation, also has a tremendous impact:
  • His work in these areas brings about positive change and transformation
  • Despite the significance of these endeavors, Tim believes that revealing trauma holds an even greater impact
Andrew expresses gratitude for Tim’s bravery and openness:
  • He acknowledges the weight of sharing personal stories with the world and the unknown ripple effect it may have
  • Andrew sees Tim as a pioneer and an example for himself and others
  • He mentions Peter Attia, another figure who has been opening up about personal challenges, emphasizing the importance of sharing and bravery
Tim reflects on the experience of revealing trauma and the power it holds:
  • He acknowledges the uniqueness and significance of sharing personal stories with a wider audience
  • Tim notes that taking the pain and incorporating it into one’s “medicine” can be transformative
  • He compares pain to fire, which can consume or be harnessed for different purposes
Tim shares his conversations with suicidal individuals and the impact of his own experiences:
  • He cautions that he can no longer engage with suicidal individuals one-on-one due to the emotional toll
  • Tim emphasizes the importance of seeking professional help and providing resources for those in need
  • He reveals that his own credibility and understanding of suicide have made him a trusted source for some individuals
  • Tim finds meaning in his suffering by being able to relate to and support others who are experiencing suicidal thoughts
Tim encourages individuals to find ways to transmute their pain into something meaningful:
  • He believes that everyone can find a way to share their pain and make a difference, even if it’s just impacting one person
  • Tim emphasizes that personal connections and impacting individuals on a deep level hold more meaning than widespread but shallow influence
Andrew agrees with Tim’s perspective and highlights the significance of making a meaningful impact on even one person
Tim’s Current Roles:
  • Experimentalist:
    • Tim strongly identifies as an experimentalist in various spheres
    • Experimentalism can manifest in different forms and applies to his work in self-experimentation, investing, and exploring new fields
    • Tim’s enthusiasm for experimentation is closely tied to his role as a teacher
  • Teacher:
    • Tim has a deep-rooted desire to teach and make a positive impact on others
    • He has considered becoming a ninth-grade teacher to help guide students during a critical phase of their lives
    • Tim’s passion for teaching stems from his ability to quickly learn and deconstruct complex subjects and his gratification in sharing knowledge and skills with others
Potential Future Roles:
  • Artist:
    • Tim has a keen interest in exploring visual artistry, particularly in the realm of comic book illustration
    • He previously worked as an illustrator but stopped pursuing it after graduating, and now wishes to rekindle that passion
    • Tim desires to delve into more artistic endeavors, possibly involving animation
  • Father:
    • Tim sees parenthood as one of the greatest adventures and desires to explore the role of a father in the future
    • While not attached to specific timelines, he recognizes the potential for becoming a father and finds it intriguing
  • Exploration:
    • Tim has a strong affinity for exploration, which he views as intertwined with his experimentalist nature
    • This exploration can take various forms, including geographic exploration and connecting with experts in different fields
    • Tim embraces the idea of following a trail of exploration, driven by curiosity and the desire to discover new paths
The distinction between wanting to have kids and wanting to be a good parent:
  • Tim emphasizes the difference between desiring to have children and desiring to be a responsible and effective parent
  • He believes it is crucial to approach parenthood to be a good parent, rather than merely having kids
Parallels between training dogs and raising children:
  • Tim draws parallels between training his dog, Molly, and the process of parenting
  • He highlights the importance of investing time and effort into training Molly, recognizing that while dogs and kids are different, there are similarities in predictive ability and behavior
Training animals and humans:
  • Tim references his friend, a chair of Ophthalmology at Stanford, who humorously mentioned that he and his wife had three children in preparation for having a dog
  • He mentions a quote from the book “Don’t Shoot the Dog” by Karen Pryor, an aquatic mammal trainer, suggesting that people should successfully train a chicken before having children
  • Tim believes that positive reinforcement and operant conditioning play a significant role in training various creatures, be it dogs, chickens, or even humans
Role of training Molly:
  • Tim acknowledges the importance of training Molly to create a well-behaved and happy dog
  • He views training as an opportunity to curate another nervous system and nurture a healthy relationship with his dog
  • Tim mentions that Molly’s calm demeanor out of the box has both advantages and challenges in training, as she doesn’t have a strong food drive
The significance of using effective treats for training:
  • Tim shares advice from a dog trainer who stressed the importance of using high-value treats during training sessions
  • He compares it to tipping with 20-dollar bills at a crowded bar, implying that using good treats will capture the dog’s attention and motivate them to respond